# Community Guidelines - Velvett

**Last updated: January 16, 2025**

## 1. Introduction

The Velvett Community Guidelines set the behaviour standards expected from every user. They aim to foster a safe, respectful and inclusive environment for everyone in our community.

## 2. Our Core Values

### 2.1 Respect and Dignity
- Treat every user with respect and dignity
- Welcome differences and diversity
- Avoid judgement and prejudice
- Be empathetic and kind

### 2.2 Consent and Safety
- Consent is the foundation of every interaction
- Respect limits and refusals
- Always prioritise safety
- Use safewords whenever needed

### 2.3 Authenticity
- Be yourself in your interactions
- Use recent, authentic photos
- Provide accurate information
- Do not impersonate someone else or create fake profiles

## 3. Accepted Behaviour

### 3.1 Positive Interactions
- Respectful, constructive conversations
- Active listening and empathy
- Sharing common interests
- Mutual support within the community

### 3.2 Classic Mode
- Traditional dating interactions
- Respect for personal limits
- Clear communication of intentions
- A gradual, respectful approach

### 3.3 Spicy Mode (BDSM / Kink)
- Strict respect of SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual)
- Application of RACK principles (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink)
- Explicit communication of limits and preferences
- Appropriate use of safewords
- Respect for consent at all times

## 4. Prohibited Behaviour

### 4.1 Harassment and Intimidation
- Repeated unwanted messages
- Threats or intimidation
- Pressure to obtain sexual favours
- Stalking or obsessive monitoring
- Doxxing (sharing someone's personal information)

### 4.2 Inappropriate Content
- Explicit pornographic content
- Non-consensual images or videos
- Violent or shocking content
- Hate speech or discrimination
- Content promoting self-harm

### 4.3 False Information
- Fake profiles or impersonation
- Photos of other people
- False personal information
- Incorrect age or minors on the platform
- False statements about marital status or identity

### 4.4 Commercial Activity
- Soliciting paid services
- Commercial advertising or promotion
- Selling products or services
- Recruiting for businesses
- Scams or fraud

### 4.5 Dangerous Behaviour
- Incitement to illegal activities
- Promotion of illegal substances
- Encouraging self-harm
- Threats of violence
- Predatory behaviour

## 5. Specific Rules for Spicy Mode

### 5.1 Core Principles
- **SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual):** every activity must be safe, sane and consensual
- **RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink):** participants must understand the risks and give informed consent
- **Ongoing consent:** consent can be withdrawn at any time

### 5.2 Required Communication
- Discuss limits and preferences beforehand
- Clearly establish safewords
- Check in on consent regularly
- Respect stop or pause signals

### 5.3 Appropriate Content
- Educational content about BDSM / kink practices
- Respectful discussion of preferences
- Constructive sharing of experiences
- No unsolicited explicit descriptions

### 5.4 Safety and Well-being
- Physical and emotional safety come first
- Promote safer practices
- Support members after an incident
- Respect personal limits

## 6. Moderation System

### 6.1 Reporting
- Use the report button for violations
- Provide details about the incident
- Report dangerous behaviour immediately
- Protect your own safety first

### 6.2 Corrective Action
- **Warning:** for minor first-time violations
- **Temporary suspension:** for repeated or serious violations
- **Permanent ban:** for major violations or repeat offences
- **Referral to authorities:** for illegal activity

### 6.3 Appeal Process
- Sanctions can be challenged
- Review by the moderation team
- Final decision within 7 days
- Transparent communication of the reasons

## 7. Privacy

### 7.1 Confidentiality
- Do not share other users' personal information
- Respect everyone's privacy settings
- Do not take screenshots without permission
- Protect other users' identities

### 7.2 Consent for Sharing
- Ask before sharing someone's photos
- Honour requests to delete content
- Do not share private conversations
- Respect everyone's limits

## 8. Safety and Protection

### 8.1 In-Person Meetings
- Meet in public places
- Tell someone about your plans
- Trust your instincts
- Have a way out

### 8.2 Data Protection
- Do not share sensitive information
- Use strong passwords
- Beware of money requests
- Report suspicious behaviour

### 8.3 Support and Resources
- Contact support if anything happens
- Use the available safety resources
- Involve the authorities when needed
- Reach out for professional help if necessary

## 9. Community Events

### 9.1 Respectful Participation
- Respect each event's rules
- Be punctual and considerate
- Engage constructively
- Respect other participants

### 9.2 Event Moderation
- Organisers are responsible for moderation
- Report issues to the Velvett team
- Honour the community guidelines
- Protect every participant

## 10. Evolving Rules

### 10.1 Updates
- These rules will evolve with the community
- Material changes will be announced
- Community feedback will be considered
- Versioning and change history will be maintained

### 10.2 Feedback
- You can suggest improvements
- The team consults the community regularly
- We adapt to emerging needs
- Decisions are made transparently

## 11. Resources and Support

### 11.1 Technical Support
- Help centre and FAQ
- Customer support by email
- Live chat for urgent issues
- Learning resources

### 11.2 Emotional Support
- Mental well-being resources
- Safety information
- Emergency contacts
- A supportive community

### 11.3 Legal Resources
- Information about user rights
- Reporting procedures
- Contact points with authorities
- Legal support when relevant

## 12. Contact

### 12.1 General Questions
- Email: community@velvett.app
- Support: support@velvett.app

### 12.2 Urgent Reports
- Email: safety@velvett.app
- Emergencies: contact your local authorities

### 12.3 Feedback
- Email: feedback@velvett.app
- Suggestions to improve these guidelines

## 13. Community Commitment

By using Velvett, you commit to:
- Respect these community guidelines
- Contribute to a safe, inclusive environment
- Report inappropriate behaviour
- Engage constructively with the community
- Respect diversity and differences
- Always prioritise safety and consent

## 14. Final Provisions

### 14.1 Application
- These rules apply to every user
- Violations lead to sanctions proportional to severity
- Final decisions are made by the moderation team

### 14.2 Language
- The French version prevails in case of dispute
- Translations are provided in English and other languages
- Clarifications are available on request

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**Thank you for helping us make Velvett a safe, respectful and inclusive space. Together, we build a community where everyone can be authentic and find meaningful connections.**